At the outset, it must be noted that guitar playing is a skill. It is the capability of a person that can captivate human eyes at the first instance. Adolescents, teens, early adults, or even girls at their mid 20s are still fascinated by this skill. Hence, the question: are girls really attracted to guys who play guitar? Dazzled, I will say yes, especially to those who are really good at it.
Moreover, most of us humans, if not all, whether male or female, love music. Playing guitar is a medium of music. When we hear songs, sometimes, we fell in love; we become hooked.
Thus, aside from being a captivating skill, it may be an avenue to put to the next level the element of admiration to one’s beauty, thereby, making the girl feel she is very important when guitar music reaches her senses from an interested guitar player.
She may reciprocate; she may find the player attractive; or both.
Do girls find boys playing guitar attractive?
When we conducted a simple survey on this subject, we found out that, indeed, girls like boys who have special skills such as guitar playing. They may be attracted to such.
Especially those who can already strum a good deal of songs, girls find them interesting, may be more attractive than those who cannot.
Ladies, from what we learned through our simple review, do like to be amazed. They prefer ability, special skills, and personality more than looks. Of course, I will not disprove that looks also matter. Yet, being engaged is something that lasts rather than the initial jerk of attraction brought about by looks.
Guitar playing skills speak of personality. The latter is more like a magnet than the incipient value of the physical pull or connection. It may be similar to an amalgamating stimulus that can catch a girl in awe and eventually be hooked into it.
Seeing a personality through guitar playing skills may be a powerful eye catching sight that girls want to watch in its culmination. For what it is worth, it may be an introductory breakthrough to an inceptive insurmountable impasse.
Playing guitar for a girl
Most of the boys, if not all, want to please their girl or even at one point those they admire. It is but natural for boys to make moves for them to be noticed and, hopefully, appreciated.
Good thing for those who know how to play music, especially the most convenient which is the guitar instrument, they may now have an opportunity to penetrate the wall. Thus, in order to convey their message, these young men will course it through their music medium.
Sometimes, it may be their own original song crafted mainly for the girls they like, or known, little known, classic, or oblivious love songs which they think could put forward their message, cryptic or otherwise.
For the girl, I think, of course, flattery is given. It is one of the purposes for which, knowingly or unintentionally, said music has been conveyed in the first place. Other than that, the girl may absorb the message at an instant or may took her for a while to see its significance.
Yet, one thing is for sure, it will get through, either because of the charm of the song itself or the personality of the conveyor.
When a guy plays guitar for you
We are talking of girls, women, or ladies.
Obviously, when a guy plays guitar for a girl, besides being in an otherwise neutral setup such as roving musician or a band, it is a form of adulation, or a conveyance of such fascinating feelings or emotion towards that lady.
An admiration, we may say so. For a man who will do this, it will mean, among others and barring any other motive, something for him that goes with his purpose of making known his intention towards that particular woman.
Yet, we cannot also discount the possibility that it is a mere platonic applause. Nonetheless, the common denominator is that he wants you [the girl he likes] to hear something from him, for that guy to seriously play something for you, using his skill in hitting that guitar instrument, at the very least. .
We may never know what it is. However, if we will assume that this happens between two opposite sexes, it may reveal that the man wants to relay his emotion to the woman.
Guitar playing is a worthwhile skill to develop. Through a guitar, a guy who is deaf to verbally communicate his feelings will have the opportunity to make known the same to his sought after lady.
Thus, when a guy plays a guitar for you, it is a conversation.
Benefits of playing guitar
When a man tries to woo a lady, it feels instantly that there is block. For most, if not all, that block is insurmountable. Getting across your message to the girl you like is equally a difficult task. Hence, how can you break the barrier of communication in this situation?
Music can play a vital role here. If you know how to hit, strum, and pluck the guitar, that is an added arsenal. Because as we have discussed, ladies have a soft spot for music. More importantly, they like, and they are amazed on, those guys who play guitar.
There may be an instinctual attraction, whether to a small degree or whatever. This may signal the opening. It is up to you to show your worth and grab that chance. It goes without saying that opportunity comes to those who wait; yet, it is captured by those who dare to attack.
Is playing a guitar cool?
I am a guitar player. Definitely, it is cool. It is satisfying to play songs, and also to create your own brand of melody and notes, as inspired by what I am fond of listening to.
Hitting the strings of my guitar gives me sense of fulfillment. I may not be that great or even close to being a guitar god, nonetheless, I can help individuals to be inspired in their guitar learning journey or even those who are advanced already, and those who appreciate my tune.
Why also cool? It is also because it shows one’s skill, and more importantly, the personality. The latter can transcend even one’s physical attributes.
If you play guitar and are good at it, your personality will speak for yourself, rather than you boasting your capabilities.
Consequently, people may embrace you for what your personality is as a whole and not merely by your physical attributes. In this manner, for girls, you may appear attractive to them as a guitar player.
That is why guitar playing is cool.
Final thoughts
When you play the guitar, people may stare and look at you. They can be drawn to you by your sheer talent. At the end of the day, whether you are attractive or not, you will have that certain degree of charisma. Girls can unintentionally give you the benefit of the doubt or some may even like or desire you in an instant.
Even for an average guy, I may say that playing guitar may make a girl notice you, whether it be a mere glance or a stare. That small opening, as I have said, may be the chance for you to have a starting point.